My life's experiences have shaped my perspective on many things. My parents divorced when I was very young, I attended an affluent, private high school, and I have friends of different shades and faiths. Because of all of these factors I have a unique view on everything from politics to fashion. Though I've been extremely blessed, I've never considered myself "privileged". After all don't my labels already knock me down a peg on the American ladder of success? I'm a black, female who has been raised by a single mother for most of my life. According to statistics I should be a high school drop out with a baby or two on my hip. (By the grace of God I'm a sophomore in college sans kids.)
Has the fact that I've done a little better than my peers according to society's standards give me licence to look at things from a heightened perspective? When I see a 16 year old post "Well...I guess I've got a bun in the oven!" on Facebook should I shake my head and still expect her to get through high school? After all everyone has obstacles in life. If I got accepted into 4 out of the 5 colleges I applied to with my GPA, she can definitely get in with a child. Right? I wish the answer was that simple. The American Dream makes one think that no matter what the odds, there is always a way to make the playing field even. As an optimistic person I have subscribed to this way of thinking. Anybody can be anything. Look at our president- he's living proof!
Is my perspective flawed? Should I take into account people's backgrounds and upbringings when looking at where they have ended up in life? Or should I turn a blind eye to people's journeys and solely focus on their destination?
Share your thoughts. I'm here to learn!
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